Dear Readers. Last week, we discussed how to decide which track your kids should be placed into in Yeshiva. This week, we’re going to IY”H focus on ways to motivate your children to learn better. This pertains to both Hebrew and English subjects.
Let me begin by being very clear about something. It’s the job of the Rebbe/teacher to motivate your child. The fact that we’re discussing pointers in no way should change that detail. If you feel that your child is not being motivated properly or has no desire to succeed, you need to have a serious discussion with the Rebbe or teacher in question. Nonetheless, as parents, we understand that there are times that our children might occasionally need a bit of a jumpstart. Below are a few ideas that you can try - understanding of course, that some approaches may work better than others.
Wishing you continued Nachas from all of your your children. YR
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Sara. L.
8/18/2016 10:10:41 pm
A bit later than usual, but well worth it.
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David
8/18/2016 10:12:02 pm
You are correct. It's the Rebbe's job to motivate. I wish more Rebbeim would understand this and not shift it to the parents.
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Chavie G.
8/18/2016 10:29:04 pm
Many good ideas here. Looking to try them all.
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Ari
8/18/2016 10:32:07 pm
Another great idea is to teach them how amazing Shabbos is. It's a day off from Yeshiva. Nice articles as always.
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Shira Leah
8/19/2016 08:21:46 am
It's so interesting that you made the comparison of charts versus incentives. I've always wondered. I'm sticking with charts for now. Might be more work, but easier to control. Thanks!
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Chaya Mushka
8/19/2016 08:23:42 am
Great information. I wish the Rebbeim would try a little harder to motivate, but I guess it's not that easy. Have a good Shabbos.
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Elie R.
8/19/2016 08:24:55 am
If I share stories from when I was little, my kids will take it the wrong way. "You cut school all the time and still turned out alright!" Lol.
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Yaakov M.
8/19/2016 08:31:53 am
These days motivating kids is really challenging. As you pointed out, communication with the teacher or Rebbe is key for success.
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